Thursday, September 07, 2006
CAREER LIFE VS FULL-TIME HSE WIFE
WHAT A LIFE WITHOUT A FAMILY? HAVING A HAPPY FAMILY IS A TOKEN OF LIFE BUT WE REALLY CAN'T IMAGINE A FAMILY LIFE. SOMETIMES I FEEL THAT BETTER TO LIVE SINGLE BUT...MORE WORST!
WHEN I THINK THROUGHLY I FEEL THAT MY LIFE IS GREATER B'COZ I GOT A HUSBAND AND KIDS. WHAT ABOUT THE SINGLE PERSON? LONELINESS? NO WAY I CAN LIVE THAT WAYS. THANKS TO ALLAH, ALHAMDULILLAH!
At last i feel relief b'coz i meet my leader after work today. She motivate me to do better and persistent towards it. therefore i set in my mind, i MUST DO IT. coz' what happend to me last week is like a slap on my face and the impact are bombastic. thus, i wanted to make a new move starting from now on.....insyaallah.
And the first thing that i should remember is, i Must heLp people. b'coz a good helper will got their rewards eventhough tiny but it does matter. as long as our purposes of helping people achieved (QUOTED FROM CAROL).
Therefore, i should pull back my words to my hubby that i wanna quit from working life. but i just can't be a FULL-TIME HSEWIFE (not yet). i still need to help my family, build up with him. together. rather than hoping him alone to fulfill our dreams. coz man cannot be count. sometimes we never know what is going to happen to our relation. so, i want to prepare my self a guaranteed life in future with my lovely cutie. in which i can't replace with anything in this WORLD (mawi kn ada, hehehe).
And my personal view women nowadays must work and their own career for their safe side. if happened to be our life up side down we still got a way to resolve our future life and secure our valuable properties i.e our kids. otherwise for sure MAN got it coz' we are not capable in raising up the kids if we are jobless. and that moment there is nothing for us to regret with...but it's not 100% happened to all families, just too many cases nowadays! (hopes that it won't and never happend to me) :-(
Posted by PIJA a.k.a pijot