..::AiN d'HeArTy::..

...::foLLoweRs::...

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Al-Fatihah buat Allahyarham Mohd Thani


...Al-Fatihah...buat Tok Mamak on 28th March, 2009 bersamaan 1 Rabiul Akhir 1430...semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama2 dengan org2 yg beriman...amin ya rabbal a'lamin...
...this is the last photo taken by Raudhoh in front of his house...still healthy and gud looking with his smile...and very well-known with his gud hearted...we will miss him a lot as almost every day he comes to our house giving candies to Wafa...thanks so much for being so lovely to us and we will keep praying to him...semoga Allah s.w.t menempatkan Allahyarham di syurga...amin ya rabbal a'lamin...

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Celebrating our Sultan Kedah's Besday

...the CELEBRATION begin...
Dated 24th March, 2009...got an invitation as DXN Staff to attend Jamuan Rakyat 2009 Sempena Ulang Tahun Hari Keputeraan Ke Bawah Duli Yang Maha Mulia Tuanku Sultan Kedah yang ke 81 @ Stadium Sultan Abdul Halim, Jalan Suka Menanti, Alor Setar, Kedah.
That nite everyone wear the very the glamour u...to celebrate him...Sultan Kedah still looks very strong at his age...generous and humble person...

They serve Chinese Set Dinner that nite in which the food is quite nice...we enjoy the food that nite...joining me that nite is Ida, Angela, Bib and Nana...we car pool together and manage to arrive on time...there are 3 table booked by DXN Holdings on that nite...

However, feel a bit disappointed coz' no chance to taste the lovely cake presented by Dewan Perniagaan to Sultan Kedah...he also get 3 pairs of Mandarin Ducks as present....but i really never heard of that duck before....must me nice one lar
And the party end around 11.30p.m...1 hr later than schedule...
While having the dinner, we had been entertained by lovely singer Francisca Peter...she sang all lovely songs...like being in her concert...and i look Sultan Kedah enjoy listening to her songs...

At the end of the party, while Sultan Kedah leaving the Majlis Keraian...Nana and Bib manage to shakehand with both Sultan and Sultanah...but i miss the chance...however, I manage to shakehand with Raja Muda....jadilah...amik berkat sket....hehehe!...




Tuesday, March 24, 2009

"Malam Pertama Kita"


Satu hal sebagai bahan renungan Kita...
uNTuk merenungkan indahnya malam pertama
Tapi bukan malam penuh kenikmatan duniawi semata
Bukan malam pertama masuk ke peraduan Adam Dan Hawa

Justeru malam pertama perkawinan kita dengan Sang Maut
Sebuah malam yang meninggalkan isak tangis sanak saudara
Hari itu... mempelai sangat dimanjakan
Mandipun...harus dimandikan
Seluruh badan Kita terbuka....
Tak ada sehelai benang pun menutupinya.
Tak ada sedikit pun rasa malu...
Seluruh badan digosok dan dibersihkan
Kotoran dari lubang hidung dan anus dikeluarkan
Bahkan lubang-lubang itupun ditutupi kapas putih...
Itulah sosok Kita....
Itulah jasad Kita waktu itu

Setelah dimandikan.. ,
Kita pun akan dipakaikan gaun cantik berwarna putih
Kain itu ...jarang orang memakainya..
Kerana sangat terkenal bernama KAFAN
Wangian ditaburkan kebaju Kita...
Bahagian kepala..,badan. .., dan kaki diikatkan
Tataplah.... tataplah. ..itulah wajah Kita
Keranda pelaminan... langsung disiapkan
Pengantin bersanding sendirian...

Mempelai diarak keliling kampung yang dihadiri tetangga
Menuju istana keabadian sebagai simbol asal usul
Kita diiringi langkah longlai seluruh keluarga
Serta rasa haru para handai taulan
Gamelan syahdu bersyairkan adzan dan kalimah Dzikir

Akad nikahnya bacaan talkin....
Berwalikan liang lahat..
Saksi-saksinya nisan-nisan. . yang telah tiba terdahulu
Siraman air mawar.. pengantar akhir kerinduan

Dan akhirnya.... tiba masa pengantin..
Menunggu dan ditinggal sendirian,
uNTuk mem pertanggungjawabkan seluruh langkah kehidupan

Malam pertama yang indah atau meresahkan..
Ditemani rayap-rayap dan cacing tanah
Di kamar bertilamkan tanah..
Dan ketika 7 langkah tlah pergi....
Sang Malaikat lalu bertanya.

Kita tak tahu apakah akan mem peroleh Nikmat Kubur...

Ataukah Kita kan memperoleh Siksa Kubur.....

Kita tak tahu...Dan tak seorangpun yang tahu....

Saturday, March 14, 2009

The Grown-Up Kids

Aduh...x sangka masa berlalu dengan cepat sekali and anak2 dh besar semua...bila tgk balik album lama...terus teringat dulu diaorg dok dalam perut selama 9 bulan tendang2 nk kuar...dh kuar...macam2 perangai dok ada...geram sungguh nk melayan kerenah diaorg...tapi bila tengok muka diaorg masa tengah tido....alahai kesiannyerlah....may be macam tu jugak ler perangai kita masa kecik...bertapa sabarnyer mak n bapak besarkan kita...i am so thankful having a wonderful mum and dad like both of them...and i am hoping i could be the best mum ever to my kids...


...MaMa LuV u aLL...iRdiNa, daRwiSy n' waFa...kalu mama marah pun coz' I wanna u all be a great person in future...don't waste our lifetime doing something bad, coz' it will determine what are u going to be in future...and i will always be with u all to support and provide my love...coz' u'll are my precious that can't be replace with anythg else...
...posing kat rumah Ati(dina, wafa, fathonah, nayli n mummy)...
...posing with Mak Tom (ala terpejam plak mata) on the way to Tg Karang...
...lovely sisters yg sgt suka gaduh...hehehe!
...cute wafa...tgh nk memunggah comforter...
...lil wafa n lovely MaMa...
...peace from Wafa n Ziqah @ Mak Tam's hse...

Friday, March 13, 2009

Sponsored Lunch @ Kenny Roger Roaster

...::posing kekenyangan::...
How wonderful having lunch with friends without paying...hehe...Ameertha belanja us with her sincerity after so long been postponed due to a lot of party...keh keh keh...that's why who join DXN can put on weight coz too much party/ makan2...
...::Amee n Zana, excited to have the meals::...
...::the yummy muffin::...
...::the delicious meals that i ordered::...
...::me and ida with our meals::...
Thanks amee for the lovely meals...next time jgn ler malu2 nk belanja kami lagi...we all sudi nk temankan u makan...ahaks!

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

What You Don't Know About Facebook!!!

Ramai yang suka menggunakan laman web sosial seperti MySpace, Frienster, Tagged dan juga Facebook untuk mencari kawan dan juga member lama di ruangan maya. Ada yang menjadikan laman web sosial sebegini sebagai satu tempat untuk mereka berkarya,tidak kurang juga yang menjadikannya sebagai satu tempat dalam memperjuangkan wadah dan pemikiran masing-masing. Yang penting, ianya PERCUMA dan itulah yang aku ingin kongsikan.


Lamab web sosial sekarang tidak ubah seperti blog. Dengan menggunakan umpan yang paling senang iaitu PERCUMA, berduyun-duyun pengguna Internet akan berusaha untuk mendapat satu account bagi diri masing-masing. Apatah lagi kalau username mereka masih belum diguna pakai oleh orang lain. Betul`kan? Jadi sebagai pembuka kata, hari ini kita akan berkongsi sedikit info mengenai laman web sosial yang sedang meletup iaitu FACEBOOK.


Sebenarnya, ada sebahagian “dark side” yang tidak diketahui oleh berjuta pengguna internet di dunia ini mengenai Facebook. Ini adalah satu konspirasi teori yang telahpun menjadi fakta benar dan apa yang boleh kita lakukan sekarang adalah “lihat” dan “terus melihat”. Jika ada di antara kita yang telah meletakkan butir-butir peribadi sebenar di dalam Facebook, maknanya tiada apa lagi yang kita boleh lakukan.


Sedarkah kita siapa sebenarnya di belakang Facebook? Sedarkah kita bahawa semua data-data yang kita berikan itu telahpun disimpan oleh pihak CIA? Mereka boleh mengakses semua mengenai kita dan dengan mudah mendapat semua butir-butir diri tanpa perlu bertanya kepada kita, bos kita, kawan-kawan kita, pihak universiti kita, keluarga kita dan banyak lagi sumber at anytime they want!


Dan yang lebih menyedihkan lagi, ramai dari kita terutamanya rakyat Malaysia sudahpun memberikan 100% info dan butir-butir diri mereka dengan TEPAT. Apabila ditanya, mereka dengan mudah menjawab, “nanti kalau member lama atau member sekolah ingin mencari kita… senang sikit!


Malang sekali bukan itu yang berlaku. Dalam pada keghairahan yang kita sendiri wujudkan terhadap Facebook, kita sedikitpun tidak membaca dasar ataupun polisi yang Facebook letak di dalam laman web mereka. Yang kita tahu hanyalah PERCUMA dan sikap ramah dan jujur kita itulah yang boleh memakan diri kita sendiri sebenarnya.


Mari kita lihat apakah yang Facebook nyatakan mengenai butir-butir peribadi yang kita sendiri masukkan dalam account Facebook kita:

DOES WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FACEBOOK STAY IN THE FACEBOOK?
By posting User Content to any part of the Site, you automatically grant, and you represent and warrant that you have the right to grant, to the Company an irrevocable, perpetual, non-exclusive, transferable, fully paid, worldwide licence(with the right to sublicence) to use, copy, publicly perform, publicly display, reformat, translate, excerpt (in whole or in part) and distribute such User Content for any purpose, commercial, advertising, or otherwise, on or in connection with the Site or the promotion thereof, to prepare derivative works of, or incorporate into other works, such User Content, and to grant and authorise sublicences of the foregoing.

Cuba bayangkan!!!

Facebook yang telah menjadi kegilaan pengguna internet adalah tempat yang paling mudah untuk CIA mendapatkan data peribadi mereka dengan PERCUMA. Bagi pengguna kebanyakan (mereka yang bukan extreme), mungkin ia tidak akan membawa keuntungan kepada pihak CIA tetapi bagi mereka yang mempunyai “title” sebagai “professional” seperti seorang doktor, peguam, PROFESSOR, scientist dan yang seumpamanya… inilah MANGSA CIA yang sebenarnya.


Mengapa?
Kerana sama ada kita percaya atau tidak, ramai golongan professional yang meletakkan segala butir-butir mengenai diri mereka dengan lengkap bagai nak rak dengan alasan mereka mempunyai kawan di seluruh dunia dan masing-masing tidak mahu “kalah” dalam menceritakan semua kejayaan dan kegiatan yang telah mereka kecapi.


Bukankah itu semua adalah PRIVACY diri sendiri?
Pernahkah kita/mereka fikirkan mengenai RISIKO yang mereka letakkan ke atas diri mereka sendiri?


-Habis semua data mengenai aktiviti dimasukkan.
-Habis semua data mengenai achievement diri dimasukkan.
-Address, hometown, phone number, clubs, jobs, rekod pendidikan, interests, daily
schedule…. habis diberikan begitu sahaja. Itu semua akan disimpan oleh pihak CIA


Sebagai data yang boleh dijadikan statistik untuk kegunaan mereka pada masa hadapan. Malah, maklumat mengenai keluarga juga dimasukkan dengan selamba.


Halo…
Kita marah bila orang mengambil tahu hal kita. Kita marah bila orang mencungkil privacy kita. Tapi kita tidak sedar yang kita telah “berikan” semuanya di dalam Facebook kita! Ikut percakapan kasar orang di warung kopi, bunyinya memang menarik. Ini dialognya:
Esok kalau katakan mereka hendak menyerang Malaysia, mereka sudahpun tahu dimanakah golongan bijak pandai di Malaysia ini berada/tinggal. Sebelum dia serang, mereka akan bunuh dahulu golongan bijak pandai ini…. tiada apa yang tinggal. Bukankah semua info yang mereka perlukan sudahpun ada dalam tangan mereka?

Facebook best! Facebook nombor 1 sekarang !!!

Memang betul. Itu memang satu fakta. Tiada siapapun boleh menafikannya.
Dan ini juga adalah satu fakta:
Facebook telah di tampung sebanyak USD500,000 oleh bekas CEO Paypal, Peter Thiel. Jadi tiada masalah untuk mempromosikannya. Tidak cukup dengan itu, sebanyak USD12.7 juta telah dilaburkan ke dalam Facebook oleh James Breyer dari Accel Partners. Mereka semuanya ada agenda yang mereka sendiri faham.

Satu lagi, pihak CIA sendiri menggunakan Facebook group to untuk merekrut staffnya bagi program kesayangan mereka iaitu National Clandestine Service. Malah, Dr Anita Jones juga telah menjadi sebahagian dari Dark Side ini. Dr Anita Jones adalah Defence Research and Engineering Director untuk US Department of Defence.


Bagi aku, bersosial di laman web seperti Facebook ini tidaklah salah. Malah bagus kerana silap haribulan, boleh buat duit lagi. Tapi berhati-hatilah dengan semua privasi diri sendiri. Jangan sesekali memberikan maklumat penting. Palsukan semua maklumat yang dirasakan tinggi privasinya. Maklumlah.. rakyat Malaysia inikan cepat terpengaruh. Apalagi dengan mende PERCUMA sebegini.


Bukan hendak mengata diri sendiri, tetapi ini telahpun terbukti. Kalau tidak percaya, pergilah di Fotopages dan lihat siapakah pengguna terbesar Fotopages kelolaan rakyat Israel tu…! Jawapannya adalah rakyat Malaysia. Tidak syak lagi…


Jadi, apa yang perlu kita lakukan sekarang?
Jawapannya mudah. Bagi mereka yang pernah memasukkan data privasi mereka, senyum sahajalah. Bagi mereka yang belum dan baru nak mendaftar, berhati-hati. Itu sahaja.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

GENG...pengembaraan bermula...



On 21st February, 2009...at last kami p watch Geng - Pengembaraan Bermula Movie @ AS Mall...eventhough the cinema is quite new...but the crowd is quite huge...at the same time diaorg bukak two show and both also full house...end up we take the 1st row...1st time ever..hehehe!....ok lah janji dpt tgk...coz my kid dh bising giler nk tgk since they announce the date of the show....

punya la seronok masing2 terkekek2 dlm cinema...balik rumah siap promote lagi kat pak tam n mak tam suruh g tengok the movie...and i also recommend you all to watch that movie..really nice movie with a lovely animation....


as usual...upin n ipin is really cute and funny...other karektor also sgt bagus...especially "oopet"...cute sesgt...

I am proud that Malaysian also can produce such movie and hope there is a continuous stories from the movie....tumbs up...5 stars!

5 PeRkaRa

خمسة أشياء كلنا نريدها و نحاول الحصول عليها


Lima perkara semua kita mahukannya dan kita usaha utk mendapatkannya
1-وجه جميل
1:wajah yang cantik

2- فلوس بالملاين
2:duit yang banyak

3- صحة قوية
3:kesihatan yang baik

4- اولاد شاطرين وفالحين مثلنا
4:anak2 yg cerdik dan berjaya macam kita

5- نوم عميق من دون مهدئات و أدوية
5:tidur yang nenyak tanpa ganguan

سهلة جدا و بوصفة سحرية و سهلة تستغرق 15 دقيقة يومياً ! كيف؟؟؟؟؟
senang jer untuk mendapatkannya hanya 15minit setiap hari.

قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم :
kata nabi saw



من ترك صلاة الصبح فليس في وجهه نور و من ترك صلاة الظهر فليس في رزقه
siapa yang tinggalkan solat subuh tiadalah padanya nur di wajahnya
dan siapa yang tinggalkan solat zohor tiadalah padanya rezki yang berkat

بركة و من ترك صلاة العصر فليس في جسمه قوة و من ترك صلاة المغرب فليس في
dan barang siapa yang tinggalkan solat asar tiadalah padanya kekuatan badan,dan siapa yang tinggalkan solat maghrib tiadalah padanya anak2 yg bermanfaat

أولاده ثمرة و من ترك صلاة العشاء فليس في نومه راحة
dan barangsiapa yang tinggalkan solat isyak tiadalah padanya tidur yang nyenyak

بلغ عن الرسول (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ) ولو آية
Sampaikanlah daripada nabi saw itu walaupun satu ayat...amin!!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

lil' wafa sings her favorite song...

wafa really love singing...at any time and anywhere....
but when the time i wanna record her singing, for sure she feel shy...and that's why it became like the video that i captured...keh keh keh...

Friday, February 13, 2009

Why do we Muslims not celebrate Valentine's Day?


This question may be answered in several ways:

1- In Islam, the festivals are clearly defined and well established, and no additions or subtractions may be accepted. They are an essential part of our worship and there is no room for personal opinion. They have been prescribed for us by Allah and His Messenger . Ibn Taymiyyah may Allah have mercy on him said: "Festivals are part of the laws, clear way and religious ceremonies of which Allah Says (what means): 'To each among you, We have prescribed a law and a clear way' [Quran 5:48] and 'For every nation We have ordained religious ceremonies which they must follow.'" [Quran 22:67]

Like the Qiblah (the direction faced in prayer), prayer and fasting. So there is no difference between joining them in their festival and joining them in their other rituals. Agreeing with the whole festival is agreeing with disbelief. Agreeing with some of their minor issues is the same as agreeing with them in some of the branches of disbelief.

Festivals are the most distinctive things by which religions are told apart, so whoever celebrates their festivals is agreeing with the most distinctive rituals of disbelief. Undoubtedly, going along with them in their festivals may, in some cases, lead to disbelief. Dabbling in these things, at the very least, is a sin. The Prophet referred to the fact that every nation has its own festivals when he said: "Every nation has its own ‘Eed and this is our ‘Eed." [Al-Bukhaari]

Because Valentine's Day goes back to Roman times, not Islamic times, this means that it is something which belongs exclusively to the Christians, not to Islam, and the Muslims have no share and no part in it. If every nation has its own festivals, as the Prophet said: "Every nation has its ‘Eed" [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim] - then this means that every nation should be distinguished by its festivals.

If the Christians have a festival and the Jews have a festival, which belongs exclusively to them, then no Muslim should join in with them, just as he does not share their religion or their direction of prayer.

2- Celebrating Valentine's Day means resembling or imitating the pagan Romans, then the Christian People of the Book in their imitation of the Romans in something that was not part of their religion. If it is not allowed to imitate the Christians in things that really are part of their religion - but not part of our religion - then how about things which they have innovated in their religion in imitation of idol-worshippers?

Imitating non-Muslims in general -whether they are idol-worshippers or People of the Book - is Haraam (prohibited), whether that imitation is of their worship - which is the most serious form - or of their customs and behavior. This is indicated by the Quran, Sunnah and Ijmaa' (scholarly consensus):

(i) From the Quran: Allah Says (what means): "And be not as those who divided and differed among themselves after the clear proofs had come to them. It is they for whom there is an awful torment." [Quran 3:105]

(ii) From the Sunnah: the Prophet said: "Whoever imitates a people is one of them." [Abu Daawood]

Ibn Taymiyyah may Allah have mercy on him said: "This Hadeeth (narration) at the very least indicates that it is Haraam to imitate them, although the apparent meaning implies that the one who imitates them is non-Muslim, as Allah Says (what means): 'And if any amongst you takes them friends (and helpers), then surely, he is one of them' [Quran 5:5]."


(iii) With regard to Ijmaa', Ibn Taymiyyah narrated that there was agreement that it is Haraam to imitate non-Muslims in their festivals at the time of the Prophet’s Companions and Ibn Al-Qayyim narrated that there was scholarly consensus on this point.

3- The love referred to in this festival ever since the Christians revived it is romantic love outside the framework of marriage. The result of that is the spread of fornication and immorality. Hence, the Christian clergy opposed it at some stage and abolished it, then it came back again.

Some people may wonder, and say: “You mean to deprive us of love, but in this day and age we express our feelings and emotions - what is so wrong with that?”

We say:

Firstly: It is a mistake to confuse what they call the day with what the real intentions are behind it. The love referred to on this day is romantic love, taking mistresses and lovers, boyfriends and girlfriends. It is known to be a day of promiscuity and sex for them, with no restraints or restrictions… They are not talking of pure love between a man and his wife or a woman and her husband, or at least they do not distinguish between the legitimate love in the relationship between husband and wife, and the forbidden love of mistresses and lovers. This festival for them is a means for everyone to express love.

Secondly: Expression of feelings and emotions is not a justification for the Muslim to allocate a day for celebration based on his own thoughts and ideas, and to call it a festival, or make it like a festival or ‘Eed. So how about when it is one of the festivals of the non-Muslims?

In Islam, a husband loves his wife throughout the year, and he expresses that love towards her with gifts, in verse and in prose, in letters and in other ways, throughout the years - not just on one day of the year.

Thirdly: There is no religion which encourages its followers to love and care for one another more than Islam does. This applies at all times and in all circumstances, not just on one particular day. Indeed, Islam encourages us to express our emotions and love at all times, as the Prophet said: "If a man loves his brother, let him tell him that he loves him." [Abu Daawood]

And he said: "By the One in Whose hand is my soul, you will not enter Paradise until you truly believe, and you will not truly believe until you love one another. Shall I not tell you of something that, if you do it, you will love one another? Spread salaam (Islamic greeting) amongst yourselves." [Muslim]

Fourthly: Love in Islam is more general and more comprehensive; it is not restricted only to one kind of love, that between a man and a woman. There are many more kinds of love. There is the love of Allah, love of His Messenger and his companions love for good and righteous people, love and support for the religion, love of martyrdom for the Sake of Allah, etc. There are many kinds of love. It is a dangerous mistake to restrict this broad meaning to this one kind of love.

Fifthly: What these people think, that love before marriage is a good thing, is wrong, as has been proven in studies and by real-life experience.

So, how can we believe that Valentine's Day is of any benefit to Muslims? The truth is that it is a call for more permissiveness and immorality, and the forming of forbidden relationships.

The husband who sincerely loves his wife does not need this holiday to remind him of his love. He expresses his love for his wife at all times and on all occasions.